We direct bill counselling services to Pacific Blue Cross, GreenShield, Canada Life & Sun Life! For a full list of direct billing providers, click here.
We direct bill counselling services to Pacific Blue Cross, GreenShield, Canada Life & Sun Life! For a full list of direct billing providers, click here.
Welcome, I’m so glad you’ve connected – you don’t have to wade through this isolating, demanding, and sometimes heartbreaking world alone. Maybe you’re grieving what you’ve envisioned for your life or the dumpster fire that is this world. Maybe you’re feeling weighted down by constantly questioning your place and where you belong. Or perhaps you’re grieving both loving and harmful relational contexts and/or the body you once knew because of chronic pain & fatigue.
Whatever it is, this intricate interconnection between identity, purpose and grief is where I can support you. Many folx I work with have also experienced histories of trauma (not just trauma with a capital T) and have had to navigate invalidating and minimizing environments. In working together, we can support you in embodying a rootedness in joy and groundedness in purpose, all while reconnecting with the lineage of resistance to create the world that could be.
A little about me: I’m a cisqueer, working-turned-middle class, half-gen, currently non-disabled, straight-sized settler from Hong Kong who lives with chronic pain and ADHD. I found my way to this work through exploring and navigating my own relational trauma through the lens of privilege and systemic oppression. Above all else I love being an explorer of wonder and possibilities, witnessing and co-creating with the magic that still manages to survive this messed up world, and aspiring to be a human database and connective force for our revolutionary resistance. My ancestors come from roots in Chaozhou and Nanjing, and a lineage of creating sneaky practices to survive necropolitics, poverty, and refugeeism.
For the last decade, I’ve had the privilege of working with folx resisting multiple systems of oppression, which often manifests as being impacted by the criminal punishment system, addictions, and relational trauma. Through our work we’ve dissected the paradoxes of life, cultivating growth and healing by exploring the stories we subscribe to and the stories we tell. My approach centers on co-creating spaces of change by cultivating a culture of compassionate curiosity and discernment; often with a dose of humor and creativity (and lots of questions!). We look at your experience through an intersectional, systemic, and political context, often incorporating things like EMDR and Somatic work to further contextualize your exploration, compassion, and growth. Many of the folx I work with also incorporate their work with human design, personality type systems, and astrology into our work; nothing is off limits!
While I am continually engaging in direct clinical work with clients within a counselling context, most of my work now revolves around providing clinical supervision and business consulting services from a justice-grounded perspective. Many practitioners are not supported in accessing business development education, let alone one that is in alignment with our ethics, our knowing, and the world we are trying to create. If you relate to this, my role is to support you in developing a sustainable practice without having to sacrifice the ethics you hold dear. For more information about my Clinical Supervision and Consulting Approach, please visit this page.
In addition to my work here at Venturous, I am part of the operations team at Healing in Colour; teach and supervise counsellors-in-training at various local graduate programs; and founded Reflecting on Justice, a mutual aid/wealth redistribution-based virtual platform for therapists to unlearn systemic oppression within ourselves and our profession, through community with other therapists. To ensure continual alignment with ethical practice, I engage in ongoing clinical supervision with Vikki Reynolds.
Outside of work I have a passion for creating + learning, video games, comedy + live music. I’m also currently writing a book that critiques the Eurocentric ideology of familial love within a therapeutic context as grounded in my father’s experience as a refugee and explored through an intergenerational lens.
…you’re looking for a therapist or supervisor who names power directly, asks a lot of questions, and uses humor to stay honest without pretending things aren’t hard.
Abby works primarily with therapists and practitioners who are trying to run their practices without selling their soul, while navigating ethical tension and the personal cost of working inside capitalist and colonial systems they don’t fully agree with. Many people she works with are carrying grief: grief about the world as it is, about lives and careers that haven’t unfolded as imagined, about how to stay in relationship across difference, or about moving forward from relationships that were loving and harmful at the same time.
Sessions tend to hold seriousness and levity side by side. There’s space to be blunt, to ask questions that don’t have immediate answers, and to sort through what actually matters enough to act on. Abby often helps distill big ideas, political analysis, and clinical theory into practical next steps.
This is not therapy or supervision that avoids politics, prioritizes neutrality, or asks you to feel better at the expense of being honest.
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